happenings

7th June 2009

2009-06-06T11:15:00.000-07:00

Time just zoomed by this year. I can't believe that its already June. 2nd week of June to be precise. I still haven't touched my books that I bought a couple of months ago. What better thing to do then read right ? (When you're alone/ need time alone).There's this one book that my friend let me borrow. It;s on investment, very useful for our age.....yup still didn't touch it yet.

Instead I finished this book my colleague passed to me "undomestic goddess". Reading material for children in the states. Oh well, what to do I feel that my brain n grammar shrinks day by day.

Updates for the year of 2009:
(a)Been to Miri, a nice calm place , seen beautiful things......=)
(b)Redang with family for mothers day as well
(c)Mulu I guess in July
(d)Bali in October

Pretty planned out huh? . I would love to work harder cause I think that the $$$$$$ is running out so fast like how time passes by for me. Have you guys ever just stopped and evaluated who you are or where are you right now , is every thing you planned for happening ?

I did , for a couple of days now. Am I happy ? Absolutely......(?)
Every being I know now is very different from the people I knew or still know now. I admit there are bad days cause after all we're all human, but things look or appear very different to me now.

I used to be a very cranky and bitter person. I admit I still am but nowadays I feel so much happier than I used to.I have a very caring friend that made me lose weight, and gives me a push when I get lazy @ work, or lazy in general. It's funny how your life changes when you get close to some one.

Its a proven fact k? Example: you will get your menses the about the same time that your close friends do or your mom.... which applies to me.

Last time:

My normal routine on weekends would be wake up late and sometimes do nothing but now adays after the fwend.... I wake up early and I have a fruitful weekend all the time..... even my week days are packed... which is good no? =)

Last time:
Cincai in anything I do .

Now:
Must do my best. Must try my best

I am very thankful indeed that all this positive ness was passed over. No words can describe my feelings. "More than words".

*So if you guys see me acting blur that's just my ignorant side popping up. I really do appreciate the help given , and the support. Life would be so empty if I didn't have it.

It would be meaningless. It means alot to me even though I don;t show it because in reality I am a chicken and I'm very scared. Scared to face the truth, scared to smell the coffee, scared to jump, scared of alot of things that I hope some day I won't be scared of anymore.

Oh ....hmm/... I want to learn how to cook ...any one that wants to share reciepes let me know ?

Ciao ..... =)

2009-06-05T11:56:00.000-07:00

$$$$

2009-01-17T09:44:00.000-08:00

[Pharrel]
Shake your money maker
Like somebody is about to pay you
I see you on my radar
Don't you act like you're ---er

She...

[Ludacris]
You know I got it
If you wanna come get it
Stand next to this money
Like - ey ey

[Pharrel]
Shake your money maker
Like somebody is about to pay you
Don't worry about them haters
Keep your nose up in the air

[Ludacris]
You know I got it
If you wanna come get it
Stand next to this money
Like - ey ey

Shake - shake your money maker

Like you are skaking it for some paper
It took your mother 9 months to make ya
Might as well shake what your mother made ya

You look good in them jeans
I bet you look even beter with me in between

I keep my mind on my money, money on my mind
But choose a hell of a distraction when you shake your behind

I got *** on my right side
*** some girls
My whole hood is on to left
but they don't giving a fuck

So feel to get lose
And get carried away
So about tomorrow you forget what you where saying today
But don't forget about this feeling
that i am making you get
and all the calories you burn
from me making you sweat

My hightpoint you earn
when we taking my jet
and how everywhere you turn I'll be making you wet

[Pharrel]
Shake your money maker
Like somebody is about to pay you
I see you on my radar
Don't you act like you're ---er

She...

[Ludacris]
You know I got it
If you wanna come get it
Stand next to this money
Like - ey ey

[Pharrel]
Shake your money maker
Like somebody is about to pay you
Don't worry about them haters
Keep your nose up in the air

[Ludacris]
You know I got it
If you wanna come get it
Stand next to this money
Like - ey ey

Switch, switch, switch it from right to left

And switch it till you running right out of breath
And take a break to be ready again
And you can invite over as many friends

Just *** i want, but i really want you
Be thankfull that Pharrel gave you something ***

Luda - I am on top of my game
You want my hands from your bottom to the top of your brain
And I - just wanna take a little right on your curves
And get erotic giving your body what it deserves

Let me give you some swimming lessons on the penis
Backstroke, breaststroke, stroke of a genius

I stay harder then a senimen man
I am just a bedroom gangster
***

[Pharrel]
Shake your money maker
Like somebody is about to pay you
I see you on my radar
Don't you act like you're ---er

She...

[Ludacris]
You know I got it
If you wanna come get it
Stand next to this money
Like - ey ey

[Pharrel]
Shake your money maker
Like somebody is about to pay you
Don't worry about them haters
Keep your nose up in the air

[Ludacris]
You know I got it
If you wanna come get it
Stand next to this money
Like - ey ey

Rock rock, rock it an make it work, girl
Please don't stop till it hurts, girl
You - you been looking a little bit tipsy
So if you *** skake it a ***

So I am a member of the BBC
The original breadwinner of DTP
You are the center of attention that is distracting the squad
Cause everybody in the campus like - oh my god

[Pharrel]
Shake your money maker
Like somebody is about to pay you
I see you on my radar
Don't you act like you're ---er

She...

[Ludacris]
You know I got it
If you wanna come get it
Stand next to this money
Like - ey ey

[Pharrel]
Shake your money maker
Like somebody is about to pay you
Don't worry about them haters
Keep your nose up in the air

[Ludacris]
You know I got it
If you wanna come get it
Stand next to this money
Like - ey ey

homeless

2009-01-17T09:41:00.000-08:00

"Homeless"

Waiting here
For you to call me
For you to tell me
That everything's a big mistake

Waiting here
In this rainfall
Feeling so small
This dream was not suppose to break

I'm so sorry now
For the pain I caused you
Wont you please forgive
Please

But you don't love me anymore
You don't want me anymore
There's a sign on your door
No vacancy, just emptiness
Without your love
I'm homeless

In this cold
I'm walking aimless
Feeling helpless
Without a shelter from the storm

In my heart
I miss you so much
I'm missing your touch
And the bed that used to be so warm

I'm so sorry now
For the pain I caused you
Wont you please forgive
Please

But you don't love me anymore
You don't want me anymore
There's a sign on your door
No vacancy, just emptiness
Without your love
I'm homeless

My, My baby
I'm sorry
Oh

But you don't love me anymore
You don't want me anymore
There's a sign on your door
No vacancy, just emptiness
Without your love
I'm homeless

The animal song cuz im an animal

2009-01-17T09:39:00.001-08:00

"Animal Instinct"

Suddenly something has happened to me
As I was having my cup of tea
Suddenly I was feeling depressed
I was utterly and totally stressed
Do you know you made me cry
Do you know you made me die

And the thing that gets to me
Is you'll never really see
And the thing that freaks me out
Is I'll always be in doubt
It is a lovely thing that we have
It is a lovely thing that we
It is a lovely thing, the animal
The animal instinct

So take my hands and come with me
We will change reality
So take my hands and we will pray
They won't take you away
They will never make me cry, no
They will never make me die

And the thing that gets to me
Is you'll never really see
And the thing that freaks me out
Is I'll always be in doubt

The animal, the animal, the animal instinct in me
It's the animal, the animal, the animal instinct in me
It's the animal, it's the animal, it's the animal instinct in me [x2]

my satooday

2009-01-10T04:01:00.000-08:00

Spent my morning in the gym with Des, Thanx for working out with me ......, I extended da time from 830 till 11.30 ...body attack workout killed me on Friday...sorry... n x feeling /sleeping well the whole week... have no many excuses .... dah malas tuh malas je ....hahhahahha...

Then did something that made me so happy ... got a new ... FM Modulator.....http://www.hersheng.com/productpage.php?key=5, and a new pink mouse and a new set of pink headphones and a new pen drive ... and Des shaking his head at me n saying that I'm worser than him ... hello Mr. D buying a camera worth more than the highest income I ever got.....

Anyhu... it was a nice morning spent... afternoon spent at Shida's place with her new baby boy Mohd Ariff. ... it was something different ... and later Linis ...place ... n last ... Yana ... its amazing how I even have time to blog.... y ... cuz I dun wana eat.... =)... e h gtg ,.... farlina ere ... continue later

2009 here I come =)

2008-12-24T05:03:00.000-08:00

This year just past by too quickly, ups n downs but was never alone, thanks you guys , love you alot alot alot, I'm gonna be 26 next year ... uuuuu... scary... it was fun being 25 ...... I'm just glad that I'm still friends with the same people and ... actively going out with them as well.....my best best sis is gonna be in Cyberjaya next year =( so I'm gonna be very lonely. Babe faster doa I get a boyfriend can? I think its been ages la.....Don't do the math, I will freak out again like that day when you started counting...

New Year's resolution?..... Have alot ... the plan kind of changed to daily, weekly, monthly basis though... because the year plan didn't work out that good, I plan to

1. to get a boyfriend like Edward Cullen...hihiihih//.... Farlina jangan marah....

2. I plan to achieve and be happy about it

3. Plan to not take things too seriously anymore

4. Plan to be less stubborn n hot tempered ( dada s doa makbul)

5. Plan to focus on things longer and not have a short attention span anymore

6. hmmmm.. Plan to save more $$$

7. Plan to be active in other activities ....

8. I guess that's it?

I loved the this year , It was extra ordinary .... things were definately not as I planned, thats for sure but they did turn out right , and I hope for better things in 2009 .....

my moms wishes for me for 2008 :

I hope you find new lop in your life ( lop = love ) .....ahh hmmm......

success .....

hope you turn out more pretty .... ( face maybe ... pimples gone.. but body fail.... ,... more gym/....less cake ... n mcd n kfc...lets see if it works....

I hope all friends can forgive me if I did anything wrong..love u guys ... have a great year ahead....

PaintbaLL

2008-11-24T07:17:00.001-08:00

Had a blast, love u gurlS

some diff angles

2008-11-03T06:10:00.000-08:00

a friend of mine n myself were exchanging pictures n we decided to do something different, I always smile the same way and pose the same way when I take pictures or when I do anything, same ol same ol, felt like doing alot of new things lately, and it feels great.

Walla. =P

heres one more pix with long hair hmmm

2008-11-01T00:19:00.000-07:00

...

2008-11-01T00:10:00.000-07:00

this is how I look now, cutting my hair short every single time, why:

1. It makes me feel brand new

2. Trying to get rid of all the dyed hair, I want to grow long n black hair

3. dRIES UP FASTER

4. Dun need a brush

5. Hardly have bad hair days

a very old pic ardi passed to me

2008-10-31T22:20:00.000-07:00

Im so happy that I still see Fad n Esha , =) we go back , don't we =) .

n dis is how we look now

=P ( a few months ago , kind off miss my layered red hair)

so peeps should I keep my hair long again, like in my pic with Fad

something very cute

2008-10-31T02:18:00.000-07:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IUcpXEZ2uSM

trying to be creative , but this is what I achieved.so - so

2008-10-29T03:43:00.000-07:00

facebook stupig

2008-10-28T09:06:00.000-07:00

x upload pixies in facebook, I upload them here ha . =) . This is from PD

topic of the daY

2008-10-27T04:48:00.000-07:00

Today went by so fast, I started my day with my parents waking me up telling me that my cousins were on their way, then knowing me , I was like ok.....zzzzzzzzzzz......, mom came in my room again n started singing the way I sing when I'm joking ard ( not a nice view) , and the next thing you know I was laughing and I woke up, so much better than an alarm clock.

Went out with family n cousins and had the fantastic chance of meeting esha n "a hmm" and fad for lunch, miss them so much, miss farlina even more cuz I x met her for ages. Bought new sheets from my fav store which is living quarters, gonna post up a pic of a pressie farlina gave me that I lurve so much cuz yeye its from living quarters,

topic of the day = fitness, I was actually having a conversation with my cuz, he was telling me abt this phone that was so superb n a laptop dat hes getting so he got my attention alright, then we switched it to being fit, and I have to admit , mana nak kurus?. Go to the gym once in a while, pig out on cakes, food, snacks, coke, .....etc.

Lucky thing my appetite became a lil smaller . Stress? Nah. Just don't have the hungry urges anymore.

random

2008-10-26T08:11:00.000-07:00

I haven't blogged in ages so everything is gonna be a lil disorganized, I got inspired to blog again after reading Zs blog, so here I go.

My eldest brother just got enganged. yipee. stress is lift off me n ariff's shoulders.haha (evil laugh). The only reason why I wanted to get married was so that I could give my parents grandchildren ( parents got married late, I forsee my future .. Farlina I'm not asking for it, tak doa pun, doa nak cepat ...but what to do , guess something better is arranged, or maybe I just don;t deserve it).

The related issue used to bother me alot, people my age are married with children or minimal least they have a boyfriend they know they want to get married to or at least have a plan of what they're looking for in a partner, me ? I have zero ideas. I used to know , I used to have hope, I used to say I love you, it meant something special that was not said to every body, it had value, everything changed, I forgot .

I forgot everything and I didn't stop at all, I was just in play mode all the while, no one could put me on pause mode for me to think/feel till now, I felt it the most yesterday when my brother got enganged n when I bumped into my cousins,nephews, years passed by without any goals .. jobwise ?just lucky ..relationship wise just plain STUPID n I rushed into it, I learnt from my biggest mistake.

Those who say theres a silver lining to every cloud should be sodomized, they only say that cause they never felt the pain you did and they never put in as much effort that you did.as in the songs that abba played in mama mia, let me quote "winner takes it all". I regret for being silly n stupid and I so wish that I had been wiser but its never too late to learn from mistakes.

I had a very good piece of advice from a friend the other day, "don't focus so much on minor things like this when you could be using ur energy n effort for smthg else, so true", for once I agreed. I agree that god made each man to be partnered up with a woman, but what happens if you don't find your partner? life still goes on.

My friends and the people I meet nowadays are really making me happy and content enough, I couldn't ask for more and I don't dare too either as the time I spent alone was actually good for me, cause I did find a hero, that will never change, =) ...myself...hihihiih, that song Mariah Carey "hero", There are always pro n cons to every situation and I believe that everything will be how it should be in the end.

My mom is really happy for Anuar (my eldest, she told me shes imagining grandchildren dy, and can't wait for my turn, I hope I won't let her down, but its not in my hands , sigh).and I want to end up wit someone I want to spend the rest of my life with, not because I'm forced to be wed b4 I get wrinkles.

Most silly thing I'm gonna expose, I forgot how it is to like someone or vice versa, so I really appreciate it Zaf , shooing away my fears, I was in PD ... doing a part time job, and being alone as usual I had trouble sleeping and I was kind of lonely so zaf ... thanks for kind of chatting with me ... it really helped me sleep, relaxing ya =), so one of our topics that I wana share.

How do you know you like that person:

You act like you're in trouble even if you're not, just to find an excuse to talk to them

You smile/ eyes start to sparkel when you get a text from them/call or hear their voice

When you accidently touch their hands , got current ...

OOH MY GOD, am I really writing these things down?, I know I sound so retarded , being 25 and not knowing what the signs are, ahhh well just sharing this issue for retards such as myself. enjoy yes?

some training

2008-10-20T08:02:00.000-07:00

Practise makes purfect

pix to end geralds weddind day

2008-10-20T08:00:00.001-07:00

Geralds second wedding

2008-10-20T07:14:00.000-07:00

Now Today I have quite alot of pixies as joycee learned a new function in my phone, its the multi frame function, very cool =)

my daily routine =0

2008-10-20T06:48:00.000-07:00

Was getting ready for Geralds wedding .... so I decided to paint my nails in the hot pink shade to match my hot pink clutch, WALLA ! , k that's not my clutch but its ,more or less the same ... and I had matching toes and of course the bling bling shoe, and more pics of coolleagues, suresh and the bride n lockey as the last focus of the day =), the wedding was very sweet, gerald was smiling all the while, and his wife was weeping , sigh . Love is beautiful !

my loife

2008-10-12T05:50:00.000-07:00

so and so time (private time) is used to learn more abt urself n learn more things, set your priorities straight and plan your life, what have I done so far? you really wana know?, nah ...not telling anyone ...but I just realized that theres a better way of doing what I have to do, so its settled , yipeeee, journey continues,

This is my passport pix, man I look so strange? it has an angle ring on top .hahahha, I know it's just lighting

and here is a pic we took during nynas bday which was monkey ages ago

n here is a card I just found, my family gave it to me on my grad day ,

I guess if you have to move on, move foward , you have to feel comfortable with yourself, and thats one part I managed to miss out on alot, so I'm catching up now,

front pics r a few pics that I find quite pretty , will try to take more nices ones soon

pinky stuff dedicated to Mei Li

2008-10-10T10:53:00.000-07:00

Hey Mei Lee, look wht I did to my laptop, so free now =)

Clarifying myself

2008-10-10T02:58:00.000-07:00

My nightmare has come true, people ...its not me who's enganged !!!!!!, its my brother who is getting engaged, I wrote / should I say potong n copy the whole merisik article to understand more about how things are supposed to be by tradition, but its really cute how u guys thought it was me getting enganged. hihihihii =) . No boyfriend how to get married. I believe the day will come one day with the right timing and right guy of course. However wana say billion congrats to those who got married and are taking their marriage courses, im very happy for u guys that found ur other half in life,

I am gonna be free for almost three weeks I guess, and I am gonna enjoy every second of it, this was wat I did for the first day I was free: sleep,did my hair, went to take my pasport pixie , which mom said I looked like I was 18 , good then cuz I am getting everything late compared to normal people, hanged out with my parents , and got them to do this ...

complete me

2008-10-08T11:02:00.000-07:00

Its 214 am and I'm still wide awake, just came back from nice mkn mkn ketam place with Joyce, Eric and Kalu.

Today was my last day in UNI Strategic, and I have to admit that its the most happiest day that I have had in months, being very absent minded, body present in every situation but mind and heart filled with blankness. Finally, I feel like me again after a long time.

Life is life, I had various people telling me about it that life is not all rainbows, and every cloud has a silver lining to it. I don't expect my life to be perfect after this but, I believe I still have alot to learn and improve in certain things, especially in the area on how to deal with hypos , how to handle bitches without killing them, let me be specific . lee shar yi, operations gurl, imagine I have to double check n ask abt silly details thats related to the event cuz one of my past clients called and when I called her she asked what u want, grrrrrrrr, let it go....

yeye ..... oliday !!!!!!, suckers who still have to work in DNI ( Donkey National Indicater)

Many thanks =)

this is wat I'm doing on da second day of raya

2008-10-02T08:39:00.000-07:00

I was staring at dis ,then the flowers cuz they are red my fav =), then I took a pix of myself , my mom joined in, man shes hot for a 60 yr old, now I can actually sing that song, I got it from my mama =)

old stuff

2008-10-01T11:17:00.001-07:00

song dedicated to JoYcee

2008-10-01T10:27:00.000-07:00

I feel that dis song should be dedicated to joyceee

You'll never know
What you've done for me
What your faith in me
Has done for my soul (echo)
And you'll never know the gift you've given me
I'll carry it with me
yeah ee yeah

Through the days ahead I'll think of days before (mm hmm)
You made me hope for something better (yes you did)
And made me reach for something more

Chorus 1
You taught me to run
You taught me to fly
Helped me to free the me inside
Helped me hear the music of my heart
Helped me hear the music of my heart

Chorus 2
You opened my eyes
You opened the door
To something I'd never known before
And your love (love)
Is the music of my heart (music of my heart)

You were the one
Always on my side (always on my side)
Always standing by (always standing by)
Seeing me through
You were the song that always made me sing
I'm singing this for you (singing this for you baby)
Everywhere I go I'll think of where I've been (think of where I've been)
And you're the one who knew me better than anyone ever will again (?)

Chorus 1
You taught me to run
You taught me to fly
Helped me to free the me inside (siiidee)
Helped me hear the music of my heart
Helped me hear the music of my heart (yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah)

Chorus 2
You opened my eyes
You opened the door (you opened the door)
To something I'd never known before (ohh ohhhhh)
And your love (your love)
Is the music of my heart (music of my heart)

What you taught me
Only your love could ever teach me
You got through when no one else could reach me (baby ohhh ohhh ohhh)
'Cuz you always saw in me
All the best that I could be
It was you who set me free

Chorus 1
You taught me to run
You taught me to fly
Helped me to free the me inside (me inside)
Helped me hear the music of my heart
Helped me hear the music of my heart

Chorus 1
You taught me to run
You taught me to fly
Helped me to free the me inside (me inside)
Helped me hear the music of my heart (music of my heart)
Helped me hear the music of my heart (yeah ah yeah)

Chorus 2
You opened my eyes
You opened the door (opened the door)
To something I'd never known before (never, never, never felt before)
And your love
Is the music of my heart
The music of my heart
Music of my heart
Is the music of my heart

some songs I am listening too !!!!!!!!!!

2008-10-01T10:22:00.000-07:00

A very nice song that I listen to 10 - 15 times a day , heres the lyrics =)

Genre/Lang. : Dance
Web source for the latest music: onlylyrics.com
(Feat. Crystal Waters)

I left my Job my boss, my car and my home,
im leaving for a destination I still don't know
somewhere nobody must have beauties at all.
and if you like this you can follow me so let's go,
follow me and let's go to the place where we belong and leave our troubles at home come with me we can go to our paradise of love and joy our destination unknown (known known known known known). unknown (known known known known known). unknown ( known known known known known).

Destination unknown

Now I won't feel those heavy shoulders no more
my life got better now I finally enjoy yes all the people wanna come here and so...? come on and join us you can do that now let's go follow me and let's go to the place where we belong and leave our troubles at home come with me we can go to a paradise of love and joy, our destination unknown (known known known known known).

we left the citly the polution the crowd. The air is clean the oceans blue i love that sound. Were happy on this destination weve found, and if you want us you can follow me let's go follow me and let's go to the place where we belong and leave our troubles at home come with me we can go to a paradise of love and joy, a destination unknown (known known known known known). unknown (known known known known known). unknown (known known known known known).

(Instrumental)

Destination unknown.(known..known..known)
www.onlylyrics.com

yeah anuar fixed the internet

2008-09-29T05:49:00.000-07:00

Soya being Soya was bitching around cuz the internet was not working, was watching tv just now and anuar asked if internet worked n soya said duno, so she on the net and yipeee, its working anuar said dat he called telekom, yuppee duuuu!!!!!

Soyas weekend .. penat ,,,, nak tido

Soya woke up n did nails

Soya went jalan jalan in her hubby but dada drive

Soya verry happy now can go jalan jalan ... looking at her flip flops

time for berbuka and I am starving

is wondering why dada bought tongkat ali for her ?

pxies

2008-09-27T18:08:00.001-07:00

wats up wit me

2008-09-26T12:37:00.000-07:00

I have no idea why I'm really obsessed about this sidekick tool, I saw it a zillion times in the movies, obviously its not in Malaysia yet, so me n my friends were going goo goo gaga over it , coincidently I bumped into my colleague that day and guess what , she was using a pink side kick , and me having the google IT whatever you can find on the internet, googled up Side Kick + Pink Phone,

Slurp , it actually went in my dreams that day , I was dreaming that it was already mine... sob sob .... gila harta la me,

Anyhow , *should just bersyukur with what you have* , I was just thinking, why do people get easy money ?

Example:

Car Agents, mine especially , thanks Joyce for training me,

I had to practically deal with the bank myself, calling them up and down like a sad dog and had to bring up the matter with the VP directly , so instead of a normal process which is a week,

the car approval took a month, that was because I x follow up, after I did ... walla ...magic... you wonder when you do the job for the guy he should feel at least a bit guilt ?> , nope , very langsi .....rich sales car guy in damansara, curve couldn't care less

I think if I behaved like that , jenn n joycee would have kicked me so hard .....life ...like my friend said "lumrah hidup"

anyhow , just wana say a bunch of munchie thanks to all frienzzz who helped me out ...especially to joyyceeee who taught me , check

1. Interest rate

2.Free gifts

3.Budgeting

Really app appreciate it liau !

Pixies during car process thingy majingy

2008-09-26T11:23:00.000-07:00

Finally mission accomplished, =)

Joycees bDay

2008-09-26T11:19:00.000-07:00

Joycee , I sss sayang her alot one , her pixies from wilsons camerra.....my camera cacat that nite =(

hmmm ... more pixies

2008-09-26T11:07:00.000-07:00

These are some of da pixies from UKay Perdana with Esha n her Geng ..hihihihi.

secondy part pf of pix

2008-09-25T07:37:00.000-07:00

pixi

2008-09-25T07:23:00.000-07:00

Wilson the pixie taker =P

me = dun wan to take pixie ...face oily n sticky

wilson = take only , dun care

Farlina= k I 'm ready , cheese !

Ians URL

2008-09-18T07:46:00.000-07:00

Nice things that you can buy online =) , enjoy !

http://www.dressyjac.com/products/BG%252dR003.html

my OckeY sleeping n me decO-inG

2008-09-11T08:23:00.000-07:00

LngkawI pixies

2008-09-09T08:10:00.001-07:00

enjOy

shoot, musliM friends sorry , =(

2008-09-09T08:04:00.000-07:00

dun read my horrorscope stuff tau , sorry =(

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ooopsss.. guess we have to remove it from our facebook..-----Original Message-----From: Shahfiza, Mimi M SITI-OFIS/TSent: Tuesday, September 09, 2008 8:48 AMTo: Ismail, Baya B MALAYTR-DLL/5411; Fidah Shariff (E-mail); Sazariahz(E-mail); Hassan, Siti-Norazura MALAYTR-DIB/310Cc: Diana Zainal (E-mail); Fara Aida (E-mail); Sulong, Faridah FMALAYTR-DIC/228; Ahmad, Fatiha TIN MALAYTR-REP/TO2; Abdullah, FatimaSPSA-SPSA-HRDR; Hamdi (E-mail); Rosli, Noor-Farlina MALAYTR-DSC/1; NorRafidah Zainal (E-mail); Ayob, Norddin N SPSA-HRVO/A-T2; Husin, NurHalini H SPSA-HRDR; Sue Ila (E-mail); Yusoff, Syahrul AzniSITI-EPT-IT-KMSubject: FW: BACA HOROSKOP, SOLAT TAK DITERIMA 40 HARIwallahuallahuallam...leh amik sbg pedoman Pagi tadi aku menerima email ini dan aku agak terkejut dengan yang dimaksudkan oleh email tersebut. Email tersebut mengandungi isu yang telah dibincangkan melalui sebuah rancangan di TV9. Lebih mengejutkan aku lagi apabila salah sorang panel tersebut memaklumkan bahawa membaca horoskop walaupun suka-suka maka solatnya tidak diterima selama 40 hari. Ya Allah Ya Tuhanku.. Aku selalu jugak membaca ruangan tersebut terutama seawal pagi sebelum memulakan kerja. Berikut aku masukkan kandungan email tersebut untuk rujukan dan renungan kita bersama. SOLAT mereka yang membaca ramalan bintang sama ada di akhbar, majalah atau di internet tidak akan diterima Allah selama 40 hari, tidak kira mereka percaya atau sebaliknya kerana perbuatan itu sama seperti berjumpa dengan tukang ramal. Pensyarah fakulti Syariah dan Undang-undang Universiti Sains Islam Malaysia (USIM), Nik Salida Suhaila Nik Saleh, menjelaskan perkara itu berdasarkan ulasan ulama terkenal Yusuf al-Qardawi mengenai hukum membaca
ramalan bintang. Katanya, walau seseorang itu tidak membenarkan apa yang dibaca, solatnya tetap tidak diterima selama 40 hari dan jika membaca serta membenarkan pula ramalan itu, maka orang itu dikatakan kufur kepada ajaran Muhammad. Bagaimanapun katanya, jika membaca dengan tujuan untuk membantah, menjelaskan dan mengingkari amalan syirik, hukumnya dituntut malah menjadi wajib kerana tujuan memberi pengajaran kepada orang lain. "Jelas amalan meramal, membaca dan menaruh sikit rasa yakin apa dikatakan ramalan bintang itu perlu dijauhi mulai hari ini. Ini bukan perkara main-main atau seronok-seronok kerana ia bercanggah dengan hukum Islam," katanya. Katanya, perkara itu juga jelas daripada hadis riwayat Muslim bahawa Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang bermaksud: "Sesiapa yang datang kepada dukun kemudian dia membenarkan terhadap apa yang dikatakan olehnya, maka solat orang itu tidak diterima Allah selama 40 hari." Perbahasan mengenai minat masyarakat hari ini terhadap ilmu ramalan termasuk membaca horoskop dibincangkan Nik Salida bersama Al-Fadhil Kadi Daerah Temerloh, Badli Shah Alauddin, dalam program Halaqah terbitan TV9 yang disiarkan malam Ahad lalu dengan tajuk Bintang 12. Program yang mengulas mengenai ayat 105, surah an-Nahl, mengajak penonton menghindari perbuatan berjumpa atau mempercayai tulang tilik dan tukang ramal kerana Allah memberi amaran mengenai golongan pembohong itu. Nik Salida berkata, tidak dinafikan ramai yang mengatakan tujuan mereka membaca ramalan bintang adalah suka-suka tetapi amalan bermula daripada suka-suka itu akhirnya menyebabkan mereka menjadi obses seterusnya terpengaruh dengan apa yang dibaca. Katanya, ada kalangan masyarakat hari ini yang melanggan ramalan bintang
melalui khidmat pesanan ringkas (SMS) untuk mengetahui apa yang diperkatakan mengenai nasib mereka atau perkara bakal dilalui mereka setiap hari, minggu atau bulan. Sedangkan, perbuatan itu bukan saja merosakkan akidah malah menyebabkan hidup mereka tidak keruan kerana pengaruh ramalan itu sedikit sebanyak memberi kesan kepada aktiviti atau perancangan mereka pada hari itu. "Jika tidak percaya atau untuk suka-suka kenapa hingga melanggan SMS horoskop. Maknanya bangun pagi kita mahu tengok apa yang diramalkan untuk kita hari itu. Begitu juga dengan membaca di akhbar dan majalah, kenapa kita hendak tahu ramalan. "Jika katanya dalam bab rezeki apa yang diperoleh tidak setanding kerja dilakukan, maka akan timbul perasaan malas buat kerja sebab rezeki yang dapat sikit saja. Kesan ramalan ini bukan saja pada akidah, juga aspek psikologi. "Daripada suka-suka itu juga apabila kebetulan perkara diramalkan itu benar berlaku ia mula menerbitkan kepercayaan yang akhirnya menyebabkan mereka jatuh ke lembah kepercayaan perkara karut-marut ini," katanya. Badli Shah berkata, golongan yang percaya kepada Bintang 12 atau ramalan tukang tilik mengenai untung nasib atau hari baik dan tidak adalah mereka yang tidak percaya ketentuan Allah serta ciptaannya. Beliau berkata, Allah sudah memberi amaran mengenai golongan itu di dalam al-Quran di mana Allah murka dan mengatakan mereka sebagai golongan pembohongan serta penipu kerana mendahului takdir Allah. Katanya, apa yang dikhuatiri ialah disebabkan ramalan itu umat Islam lupa bahawa setiap sesuatu yang terjadi itu adalah dengan izin Allah dan ini memberi kesan daripada sudut akidah mereka. "Jika Allah tidak izinkan perkara itu berlaku, ia tidak akan jadi. Tukang
ramal pusinglah daun terup atau biarlah burung dia bercakap tetapi tanpa izin Allah tidak akan berlaku. Malangnya kita tengok, zaman moden ramai yang kembali percaya dan mencari petunjuk daripada zodiak," katanya. Katanya, kepercayaan kepada ramalan terutama tukang tilik dan ahli nujum boleh mendatangkan kesan negatif seperti menyebabkan pergaduhan antara suami isteri, permusuhan sesama jiran atau sahabat karib. Contohnya, isteri yang diberitahu mengenai sikap suami atau ramalan bahawa suami akan berkahwin lagi pastinya menyebabkan berlaku perbalahan dan paling malang lagi jika perkara itu tidak benar sama sekali. Rasulullah SAW turut berdepan dengan kelompok masyarakat Arab yang taksub dengan ramalan dan kiraan bintang hingga Baginda menyebut akan tiga golongan itu terdiri daripada mereka yang mampu meramal bintang, meramal barang hilang dan melakukan ramalan berdasarkan pergerakan bintang di langit. Malah, Baginda SAW pernah didatangi beberapa orang yang meminta Baginda meramal masa depan orang Arab tetapi Baginda memberitahu, jika diketahui perkara ghaib nescaya dirinya sudah mendapat kemewahan serta terlepas dari musibah. Mengulas mengenai sejarah Bintang 12, Badli Shah berkata, kepercayaan itu berasal dari Mesopotania, daerah asal orang Babylon terletak antara sungai Tigris dan Euphrates dan kini terletak di tenggara Iraq. Ilmu itu berkembang sejak Babylon kuno 200 tahun sebelum masihi dan secara bertahap. Amalan dan kepercayaan itu semakin berkembang hingga tahap yang dikenali sebagai horoskop atau Bintang 12 yang mengaitkan keperibadian dengan tarikh lahir berpandukan bintang. "Contohnya bintang Capricorn untuk mereka yang lahir 22 Disember hingga 20 Januari ikut mitos Yunani ialah lambang kambing. Kambing itu bernama
Almateus dan pernah beri air pada Dewa Zeus iaitu dewa tertinggi bagi bangsa kuno ketika kecil. "Oleh itu, bagi mengenang jasa kambing itu ia dijadikan bintang dan bercahaya di langit. Kesimpulannya, Capricorn itu kambing saja. Di sini pun banyak kambing, tidak perlu tengok ke langit. Umat Islam perlu renung sejenak adakah bintang ini sesuai dengan peribadi Muslim. "Sesuai ke jika umat Islam percaya kepada bintang kambing biri-biri atau lambang orang lelaki gagah tuang air dalam tempayan besar sedangkan banyak perkara lain lebih bermanfaat yang boleh kita fikirkan," katanya. Justeru, beliau menasihati kepada umat Islam supaya menjauhi amalan membaca ramalan bintang atau tulang tilik walaupun untuk suka-suka kerana boleh memberi kesan kepada akidah serta amalan solat yang dilaksanakan...

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Looking foward

2008-09-09T07:40:00.000-07:00

Looking foward :

1) Next Holiday ( Langkawi again =) wit Farlina n Yusrina my BesttieS , Perhentian, Redang, Kapas with familY?, Vietnam? possibly ?, Thailand, covering APAC first....yes I know I started late .....prob cover the rest with my KidS in da future ...hmmm hope I have a daughter so I can buy her a tutu skirt in every diff color... )

2) New job opportunities so theres alot of experience and of course bling bling,

3) To be happy

4) To be relaxed

5) To have a nicely decorated house ( red, black n white please)
6) To not be sick with the same head pain again & again equals to being relaxed equals to being happy

7) To see Lockey more , she makes me laugh alot

other faV piX as weLL

2008-09-09T07:12:00.000-07:00

otherS

2008-09-08T07:13:00.000-07:00

my aLL time faV pic

2008-09-08T07:03:00.000-07:00

TwO songs I am crazY about

2008-09-08T06:44:00.000-07:00

Look out
(Will.i.am)Where it’s at (where it’s at)I know karma’s coming to pay me back (pay me back)I’m with the sweetest thang that’s on the map (on the map)I broke her heart in 30 seconds flatIn 30 seconds flat
Now how did I (how did I)Just how did I become that kind of guy (kind of guy)To look at girl and lie right in the eye (in the eye)My momma told me willy that aint rightBoy now that aint right
I’m s s s sorryI’m s s s sorryI didn’t mean to break your heart(I didn’t mean to break your heart)I’m s s s sorryI’m s s s sorryI didn’t mean to break yaB b b b break it babyLook babyI’m a heartbreakerI’m a heartbreakerI’m a heartbreakerI’m a heartbreaker(Sheryl)You’re my heartbreakerYou’re my heartbreakerYou’re my heartbreaker(Will.i.am)A h h h h I’m a heartA h h h I’m a
(Will.i.am)Where she go (where she go)I got some things I gotta let her know (let her know)To fix the love now its impossible (its imposible)But baby baby if we take it slowIf we take it slowWe can make it work make it workWe just cant throw the love down in the dirt in the dirtYou probly think that im a f**kin jerkcause the way I let you down it made you hurtI didn’t mean to make you hurt
I’m s s s sorryI’m s s s sorryI didn’t mean to break your heart(I didn’t mean to break your heart)I’m s s s sorryI’m s s s sorryI didn’t mean to break yaB b b b break it babyLook baby(Will.i.am)I’m a heartbreaker(Sheryl)You’re my heartbreakerI’m a heartbreakerYou’re my heartbreakerI’m a heartbreakerYou’re my heartbreakerYou’re my heart(Will.i.am)A h h h h im a heartA h h h ima
(Sheryl & will.i.am)Break it down(Lets break it down)Break it down(Lets break it down)Break it down(Lets break it down)Break it down(Lets break it down)Break it down(Lets break it down)Break it down(Lets break it down)Break it down(Lets break it down)Break it down(Lets break it down)Break it down(Lets break it down)
(Sheryl)You’re my heartbreakerYou’re my heartbreakerYou’re my heartbreakerYou’re my heartbreaker(Will.i.am)I’m a heartbreakerI’m a heartbreakerI’m a heartbreakerA h h h h I’m a heartA h h h h I’m a

another slurpee nice tune song

Estelle feat Kanye West - American Boy Lyrics
Kanye West:
This a number one champion soundyeah Estelle we ’bout to get downwho the hottest in the world right now.Just touched down in London town.Bet they give me a pound.Tell them put the money in my hand right now.Tell the promoter we need more seats,we just sold out all the floor seats
Estelle:ChorusTake me on a trip, I’d like to go some day.Take me to New York, I’d love to see LA.I really want to come kick it with you.You’ll be my American Boy.
He said Hey Sister.It’s really really nice to meet ya.I just met this 5 foot 7 guy who’s just my type.I like the way he’s speaking his confidence is peaking.Don’t like his baggy jeans but Ima like what’s underneath them.And no I ain’t been to MIAI heard that Cali never rains and New York’s heart awaits. First let’s see the west end.I’ll show you to my Bredrin.I’m liking this American Boy. American Boy
ChorusTake me on a trip, I’d like to go some dayTake me to New York, I’d love to see LA.I really want to come kick it with you.You’ll be my American Boy, American Boy.
Can we get away this weekend.Take me to Broadway.Let’s go shopping baby then we’ll go to a Café.Let’s go on the subway.Take me to your hood.I neva been to Brooklyn and I’d like to see what’s good.Dressed in all your fancy clothes.Sneaker’s looking Fresh to Death I’m lovin those Shell Toes.Walkin that walk.Talk that slick talk.I’m likin this American Boy. American Boy.
ChorusTake me on a trip, I’d like to go some day.Take me to New York, I’d love to see LA.I really want to come kick it with you.You’ll be my American Boy
Tell ‘em wagwaan bloodKanye West:Who killin em in the UK.Everybody gonna say you K,reluctantly, because most of this press don’t f**k wit me.Estelle once said to me, cool down downdon’t act a fool now now.I always act a fool oww oww.Aint nothing new now now.He crazy, I know what ya thinkin.Ribena I know what you’re drinkin.Rap singer. Chain Blinger. Holla at the next chick soon as you’re blinkin.What’s you’re persona.About this Americana rhymerAm I shallow cuz all my clothes designer.Dressed smart like a London Bloke.Before he speak his suit bespoke.And you thought he was cute before.Look at this Pea Coat, Tell me he’s broke.And I know you ain’t into all that. I heard your lyrics I feel your spirit.And there’s something about Gladys Knight and the Pips in there, can’t quite hear it…But I still talk that CAAASH.Cuz a lot WAGs want to hear it.And I’m feelin like Mike at his Baddest.The Pimps at their Gladist.And I know they love it.so to hell with all that rubbish
Estelle:Would you be my love, my love.could be mine would you be my love my love, could be mineCould you be my love, my love.Would you be my American Boy. American Boy
ChorusTake me on a trip, I’d like to go some dayTake me to Chicago, San Francisco Bay.I really want to come kick it with you.You’ll be my American Boy, American Boy.

nice song

2008-08-21T03:34:00.000-07:00

I was listening to this song found the lyrics very interesting .... =P !so decided to share it with everyone ... yipee...

Ne-Yo Don't Fall In Love Lyrics Songwriters: N/A Complimentary "Don't Fall In Love" Ringtone

Please don't say What I think You're about to say Don't take The mood away By asking questions You already know The answers to No You're not my only girl I ain't tryna be your man We had an understanding So then why are you acting Like you No longer understand
Don't fall in love Girl I'm not the one No emotions, babe We just having fun All i'm gonna do Is hurt you (Baby Please don't fall) (2x)
It's kinda why I didn't wanna start this In the first place (Just a physical thing) But you lied to me Said it's cool If we do our thing Girl You know I never ever Lead you On that's wrong I change my ways Baby Why can't we just Stay this way Don't fall in love Don't fall in love Girl I'm not the one No emotions, babe We just having fun All I'm gonna do Is hurt you (Baby Please don't fall) (2x)
Baby Please Don't fall in love Baby I'm no good for you All I'm gonna do Is hurt you Baby Please Don't fall in love
Don't fall in love Girl I'm not the one No emotions, babe We just having fun All I'm gonna do Is hurt you (Baby Please don't fall) (2x)
Don't fall in love With me baby Don't fall in love Don't fall in love with me Cause all I'm gonna do Is break your heart (Don't fall in love)

nail nail

2008-08-19T23:15:00.000-07:00

2008-08-19T21:59:00.000-07:00

my previous passion and continued session on horrorscope reading

my animal sign , jennifers as well and my other friends who were born in 1983: Pig ..oink ..oink

Chinese Zodiac Pig
Contrary to its rather negative reputation in the West, the Pig of Chinese Astrology may be the most generous and honorable Sign of the Zodiac ( very true). Pigs are nice to a fault and possess impeccable manners and taste ( yep, good manners, and good taste buds). They have so much of the perfectionist in them that others may be inclined to perceive them as snobs, but this is a misconception. Pigs are simply possessed of a truly luxurious nature, one that delights in finery and riches (in surroundings, food, lovemaking and otherwise). This Sign believes in the best qualities of mankind and certainly doesn't consider itself to be superior. Pigs also care a great deal about friends and family and work hard to keep everyone in their life happy. Helping others is a true pleasure for the Pig, who feels best when everyone else is smiling.
A Pig with no one around to appreciate its giving nature is a sad sight. ( =( .....that is sad )Pigs are so magnanimous they can appear almost saintly ( yup yup me very angelic ); this can lead some less-than-well-intentioned souls to stomp all over this Sign ( sigh, been kicked, stepped, sigh ), and the bad news is, the Pig will take the blows! Pigs make great companions in part because of their refusal to see the more negative or base qualities in a partner ( so true in the past ) , but that rose-colored view can lead to this Sign's allowing itself to be taken advantage of ( again so true). Contrary to their seemingly benign dispositions, however, Pigs can be quite venomous in response to being crossed by a lover, friend or business partner.
Pigs are highly intelligent creatures, ( and people say I'm blur , ciak , I choose to be blur only)forever studying ( jennifer ), playing( soraya) and probing in their quest for greater knowledge. They can be misinterpreted as being lazy, however, due to their love of reveling in the good stuff; this Sign could happily spend hours on end making love, napping, taking a long bubble bath or dallying over an incredible spread of rich foods.( buuble bath and laying around the beach is great) Pigs tend to make wonderful life partners due to their hearts of gold and their love of family ( very true). Even so, Pigs can be rather exclusive, choosing to spend time with those who will appreciate them most and ignore the rest of the populace. Pigs would do well to realize that there's more to life than being needed. When they open up their world to a diverse group of people, they will truly bloom. Will your love life heat up this summer? Find out with a Free Psychic Love Reading.

Erics animal sign: Tiger ... roar ....

Chinese Zodiac Tiger
Tigers may not be the king of the jungle, but these striped cats are no softies! Magnetic and self-possessed, Tigers are born leaders. They have an air of authority that prompts others to fall in line, which is exactly how they like it. Although they are magnetically charming and fun to be around, Tigers like to go it alone sometimes too. A Tiger's main interest is in following its ambitions -- and maintaining control.
Tigers are courageous beyond compare and generally come out ahead in battle, be it in the boardroom or the bedroom ( Eric ...true? hahaha). Seduction is one area where the Tiger is definitely king! Noble and warm-hearted, Tigers have a natural, raw appeal that's extremely attractive to other Signs. They're not just about attraction, though; ever on the side of right, Tigers will fight the good fight to the bitter end if the cause is worthy. Opponents are wise to fear this feline.
A bit of caution is a good thing around Tigers, since they can pounce without warning. They experience mood swings ( period) and often feel things more intensely than others, the latter quality being both good and bad. They can react poorly under stress and are prone to emotional outbursts. This Sign's bristling sensitivity can send friend and foe running for cover. ( this is so Eric )
A lesson that Tigers would be well-served to learn is moderation in all things. Once these cats can find their center and direct their considerable energies toward worthwhile endeavors (as opposed to racing through life), they will accomplish much.

Now for the Horoscope sign

me : Picses

PiscesFebruary 19 - March 20
Pisces is ruled by the Planets Jupiter and Neptune. In ancient Roman mythology, Jupiter (the original ruler of Pisces) was the king of the gods, while Neptune was the ruler of the seas. When Neptune was discovered in recent times, it was attached to this Sign. The pairing of these two heavenly bodies results in some unique energies being directed toward Pisceans here on Earth. Those born under this Sign are spiritually oriented and charitable. They are compassionate, easily feeling another's pain. At times, however, Pisceans can have difficulty distinguishing fact from fantasy: they tend to get caught up in their dreams and views of how things should be. To say they wear rose-colored glasses isn't much of a stretch. Pisceans who fear that their pleas aren't being heard tend to lapse into melancholy and, worse, the kind of pessimism which leads to procrastination and lethargy. At times like this, Pisceans are well-served to take some time for themselves, the better to find their center once again. Many Pisceans also immerse themselves in the arts and other creative pursuits as a centering mechanism, and they are quite talented in these areas.
The Element associated with Pisces is Water. Those born under this Sign easily relate to the emotional and unpredictable nature of this liquid gold. Pisceans feel a great deal, and they also feel misunderstood much of the time. They're not quite pushovers, but they're certainly sensitive. Yes, they could cry you a river if the circumstances were right. Even so, they revel in their compassionate and imaginative natures and love to cater to others. They can also be quite romantic, dreaming up delicious treats for their lover. Hopefully, any kindness will be reciprocated, because the Fish can certainly turn blue if they're not. Pisceans are generally gentle, easy-going folk, who are on the shy and reticent side. They are modest to the point of impracticality, often stepping up only to show their talents in painting or music. Easiest for the Fish (and still great fun) is living in their lush dream world.

jenn:

GeminiMay 21 - June 21
Ruled as they are by the Planet Mercury, Geminis exhibit a delicious brand of mercurial energy. They are quick-thinking, quick-witted and fast on their feet, much like the messenger god of Roman mythology that rules their Sign. Geminis are both curious and clever, which is why they are such a hit at cocktail parties. Although they talk a great game, they also love to listen and learn. With any kind of luck, the Twins will find themselves in interesting company, because if they don't, they are likely to get bored and start fidgeting. Any social setting is a good one for a Gemini, however, since these folks are charming, congenial and love to share themselves with their friends. While their effusiveness may be misconstrued as scheming by some, Geminis generally have their hearts in the right place. It's that ample energy which can also paint them as scatterbrained and unfocused, but behind all that zipping around, the Twins are busily filing all that good data away.
The Element associated with Gemini is Air. Air Signs are the thinking person's Signs, and the Twins don't disappoint. Those born under this Sign prize intellect and consider it the key to all things. At work, they are the clearest of thinkers, looking at a project from all (well, at least two) sides and putting forth some logical and well-thought-out ideas. This quality makes Geminis an asset to any team, and while these folks are not inclined to take the lead, they are a most valuable component. It's also the Gemini's literary bent which allows them to offer a useful perspective on most any situation. The Twins also enjoy bringing their objective reasoning and big-picture ability into their personal relationships. While some may perceive all this logical thought as cold and unemotional, it's simply how these folks tick. They want to connect, they just do it their own way. Luckily for Geminis (and their pals), their lightness of spirit and youthful exuberance help them to appear forever young. In keeping with that skip in their step, Geminis enjoy short road trips -- and their agile minds and nimble hands ensure that they could change a tire (if needed) in no time flat. Is all of this Twin-energy more than any one person can handle? Ah, maybe that's why they are two.

Pisces-Pisces Match
If this couple could get organized, the Pisces/Pisces match would work well. Because you are both dreamers, not a lot gets done when you are paired. You will, however, share an emotional bond that is practically unbreakable. This pair is only surpassed by the pairing with the other two Water signs, Scorpio and Cancer. With those exceptions, no other sign is better able to understand you and give you the emotional support you need.
Be sure that you aren’t using each other as emotional crutches, though, as this is a concern with a Pisces/Pisces pair. Because you are so selfless and giving, it is easy to be associated with another Pisces who is using you as a prop for themselves. In your helping them, you will be hurt, and could begin to see yourself as a martyr. Don’t let your relationship become a battleground.
This relationship can be both exhausting, and exciting. This is a person who understand what you need better than anyone you have met before. But they have the same needs as you, and often, it is hard to fulfill those needs if yours aren’t met as well. Neither of you are willing to take the lead, and both need someone strong in their life to keep them grounded. This might be a very fun relationship, but not one meant to last, as you are neither able to give what the other really needs- strength, stability, and support.
Your passive natures gives you a very peaceful existence together, but it is a double edged sword. While everything is going great, nothing is getting done. You bring out the best and worst in each other. You aren’t able to set limits for yourselves, and daydream away most of your time, because you have no one to ground you in reality.
Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Neptune. Pisces typically have a great sense of ethics and fair-play, as well as living with a philosophical outlook on life. Neptune adds a love of culture and imagination to this partnership. Both love to give presents, and this is very typically of a Pisces/Pisces relationship.
Pisces is a Water sign, and is very flexible when it comes to the needs of others. They are more than willing to bend to needs of their partner, conforming themselves to the situation at hand. This can be very dangerous for a Pisces, as the more they change themselves, the more they lose who they really are. Water + Water = Deluge, something that is not very healthy for either member of the couple. They are able to lose themselves in this pairing, and come out of it irrevocably changed.
Pisces is also a Mutable sign. Neither member of this couple is willing to take leadership. This is not a point of controversy, they are happy to float along without a guide. It can, however, be detrimental to their futures, as they just float along in life with no real purpose or end goal. Neither mind if things go unfinished, and it is very possible that this couple will start many new projects without finishing any of them.
One of the best things about this pair is the calm they bring to each other. They are the envy of the Zodiac for their immense amount of serenity in life, and have a peaceful, easy relationship together. Pisces is very loyal when in love, and they are always there for their partner in every situation in life.

Pisces-Aries Match
When Pisces and Aries match up, the sparks can fly! Between these two signs, the opportunity for passion is high, thanks to Aries ruling planet Mars. The full firepower of Mars can create a steamy match filled with romance and dynamic passion that can lead to a lasting love for both of you. One of the biggest draws of Pisces to Aries is that they are so different. While Pisces is happy to sit back and daydream, Aries is a go-getter. Such opposites attract as the signs see things in the other that they wish they were more like. This can be a huge plus for this relationship, or it can be what ends it. The Pisces-Aries couple needs to understand their differences in order to make it work, but when their personalities are willing to deal with those differences, this can be a life-long love match. You can balance and bring out the best in each other.
However, when there is no great understanding of the others needs, Pisces and Aries can be a devastating failure as a relationship. Because Pisces is a Water sign, and Aries is a Fire sign, if they are not mixed well, one can put the other out, or change it irrevocably. Sometimes an unknowing Pisces will dampen Aries with their emotionalism. Aries, the Ram, is far more likely to charge ahead with thick skin, while Pisces is more thin-skinned and likely to take advantage of others, and when seeing that trait in Aries, can be turned-off immensely.
While your planets (Jupiter, Mars, and Neptune) work well together, these two signs don’t always play so nice. The Ram has a hard time handling the Fishes emotional whims, and Pisces often gets left behind while Aries leads the way. Sometimes, when these signs mix well, they are able to gain great understanding from each other. Pisces can teach Aries compassion and selflessness, while Aries shows Pisces that they can be supportive and protective; something that Pisces often searches for in a mate. Pisces has the ability to love Aries, and fulfill their sexual appetite, which can be formidable, thanks to Mars. Aries needs to learn to not take that for granted, and reciprocate it for Pisces to be truly fulfilled in this relationship.
When the man in the relationship is an Aries, he can be very good for a Piscean woman. He is very dependable, and supportive when Pisces decides to try something new. As the Ram, he can see you as unique and very individual, something he will love. Pisces can admire his powerful leadership and immense energy to get things done. The physical side of the relationship should never present a problem for either of you. Aries can sometimes have a quick wit, that, when angered, can come across as mean to a delicate Pisces female. However, if the male Aries can learn to be tactful and use caution, he and Pisces can enjoy each other intellectually as well.
When the man in the relationship is a Pisces and the woman is an Aries, romance can abound! Pisces romantic nature and mysteriousness could draw any woman to him, and Aries is just as susceptible to fall for his charms. An Aries woman is exciting to him, because she inspires him to do things and go places he would have never done or gone on his own before meeting her. The Aries woman needs to understand how sensitive Pisces can be, even though he is a man, and needs to take special care not to be too caustic with him. Pisces takes everything you throw at him to heart, so make sure your words are careful, and always said out of love, not anger.
Although Pisces and Aries are such different signs, Water and Fire, respectively; and would seem to not go well together- Water douses Fire, and Fire boils Water- they can, with care, make a great team. Aries teaches Pisces to take risks and get out of their box, while Pisces teaches Aries to relax and take time to stop and smell the roses. This relationship can be wonderful for both parties when caution is used and personalities are understood.
There can, however, be many pitfalls for the Pisces/Aries match. Pisces has the tendency to daydream, and be perfectly happy with inaction. This can infuriate Aries, who is impatient, and is hard-wired to get things done, as soon as possible. Many Pisces/Aries relationship fall victim to one thing- too many differences. If they are not handled well, this relationship can be at one time both smothering to the Aries, and boiling for the Pisces. And when water boils and become steam, the personality of the Pisces is changed, and not always for the better. Use caution when you are considering entering this relationship.
Though Pisces will never be without a good time with Aries, at the end of the day, Pisces needs something a little deeper. This is another concern that needs to be taken under advisement for Pisces and Aries. Aries is a Cardinal sign, while Pisces is Mutable, which is a very good thing in terms of this relationship. Aries needs to be in charge, and Pisces is more then willing to let them. Just be sure that Pisces doesn’t become a doormat for Aries to stomp across.
The old adage ‘Opposites Attract’ is the perfect term for this relationship. The main concern is whether those opposites continue to attract or eventually repel. If both parties can learn what the other needs and is willing to sacrifice for them, this can be the most fulfilling, reciprocal match in the Zodiac. These signs really can complete the other.

Pisces-Taurus Match
The match between a Pisces and a Taurus is a solid one. When they come together, it is generally a very happy union that can last a life-time. Because they are so close together in the Zodiac, only two positions apart, they tend to have deep empathy for each other. Both signs are nurturers, and that lends the ability to get over their differences. And while the signs might seem drastically different, this match is one that is able to move past differences easily.
While Taurus has their feet planted firmly on the ground, Pisces loves to float along on the clouds, dreaming their way through life. This can be a hard thing for both to overcome in the other, being so opposite, but it is possible. Pisces can teach Taurus the wonders of dreaming of tomorrow, and Taurus helps Pisces stay planted in today. This is a very complimentary asset to the relationship, and is one of the reasons this is a well made match.
The planets that these two signs are ruled by are very compatible with each other. Taurus bring Venus to the match, and Pisces brings both Jupiter and Neptune. When Neptune and Venus come together, and very deep connection is made on the spiritual realms. They both bring feminine energy to the table, and together they create an idealistic pairing that borders on the divine. Jupiter brings balance with its masculinity and brings the relationship a little closer to reality and earth.
Taurus is an Earth sign and grounds Pisces; teaching the beauty of balancing Pisces idealistic future with their day-to-day needs. Though Pisces is a Water sign, these two elements are very compatible with each other, both being physical, tangible things. Taurus should take care, though, as too much water turns earth to mud, and Taurus can quickly become tired of the emotional instability that Pisces has. Conversely, in that case, Pisces often feels that Taurus is insensitive to their emotional needs.
When the man in the relationship is a Taurus and the woman is a Pisces, this matching has a very strong likelihood of becoming a lasting love. Both signs are deeply passionate people, which is complimentary to each other. You are both also very romantic, and that helps keep the love alive in this relationship. A Taurus male provides stability and strength to a Pisces female that allows her to be even tempered and generally happier in this union. This is a very strong union for both signs, as they are able to find what they are looking for in each other.
When the woman in the relationship is a Taurus and the man is a Pisces, the matching is a little less strong as when it is opposite. It can bloom into true love…if it lasts. Pisces are dreamers, and a strong Taurus women tends to be a little turned off by this in a man. However, if the relationship can weather that storm, Pisces steadiness creates the same in a Taurus male that is satisfactory for his mate. Add to that Pisces charming nature, intellect, good looks, and affectionate nature and a Taurus female is fairly set for happiness. In terms of signs, Taurus is Fixed and Pisces is Mutable. What that means for this relationship is that Taurus can be stubbornly set in their ways while Pisces like to flow from one school of thought to another. For this relationship to work well, Taurus needs to let Pisces be flexible in their thoughts and beliefs, while Pisces can show Taurus the beauty of doing things in different ways. Long terms, Pisces is very loving and supportive of their partner when they are embraced and understood.
Though Taurus is very black and white in the way they view the world around them, Pisces sees the gray, all shades of it! This can be a very complimentary aspect of this relationship as both partners helps the other see things from different views. Taurus is able to be a little less stubbornly set, and Pisces is a little more grounded, and both signs are better able to meet in the middle, a very good place to be.
This can be a great match, as long as you understand your differences, and instead of trying to change each other, accept them! When Pisces and Taurus get together, they have a very passionate flavor to their shared lives. The best part of this relationship is the harmony these signs bring to each other. They both value compassion and empathy and this keeps them together for the long run!
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Pisces-Gemini Match
When Pisces and Gemini unite, they can be a very mutually satisfying couple. There are a few things this couple should know in order to be successful in a lasting relationship. The two signs are at right angles in the Zodiac, which means that this can be a challenging match. These challenges can be overcome with patience, and understanding, but you will both need to be committed in order for it to work between you.
Pisces processes things differently than Gemini does. While Gemini, an air sign, is more concerned with matters of the mind; Pisces, a water sign, is more concerned with emotional matters. This can lead to miscommunication between you. A Pisces/Gemini couple needs to understand how their partner communicates in order to have a smooth relationship. Though Pisces likes social settings and conversation, much of the way you see and understand the world is nonverbal. This is a direct reflection of the way Pisces is most comfortable communicating. Gemini needs to understand this, because they are naturally not as receptive to that kind of interaction.
Pisces needs to learn to allow Gemini a moment to gather their thoughts. Once they calm their continuously thinking mind, Gemini can be very insightful. If Pisces can allow them this time, they will see that Gemini is not as shallow as they might at first appear, and this will add fodder to relationship.
This couple can also be very emphatic, which allows this relationship to be as flexible as both signs like. While Pisces sees things in a dreamlike way, Gemini is open-minded. Gemini can bring humor and direction that helps focus dreamy Pisces. This relationship can have a very solid base, as these signs are great friends as well as lovers.
When the man in this relationship is a Pisces and the woman a Gemini, this can be a blissful match. Pisces men a very attractive with their dreamy looks and nature that is so passionate. They are naturally attractive to women, and Gemini is no exception. Be careful that Gemini isn’t too thoughtless, as Pisces feelings are easily hurt, even male Pisces. This match can also be a bit self-destructive, as Pisces longs for adoration from their mate, and Gemini loves freedom. Pisces needs to be careful to not be too constricting, or Gemini will be making a run for it.
When the women in the relationship is a Pisces and the man a Gemini, the combination can be a bit unstable. You are both looking for different things from a relationship. Pisces needs Gemini to be more grounded, which is hard for this air sign. Gemini is easily bored by something they used to like, and a Gemini man might love something about you one day, and be put off by it the next. Pisces feelings can be easily hurt in this situation, as she is more sensitive than he is, and feelings are not of the utmost importance to him. However, a Pisces woman has a lot of powers of persuasion over men, with Gemini not being an exception. Use this power wisely. You can teach him a lot about the heart, and he has much to show you about the mind. He also can teach you a better means of communication which can give this relationship a better chance at lasting.
Even when these two signs do have problems, they tend to forgive easily. Gemini doesn’t take the time to hold a grudge, and Pisces is able to see their partners true intentions, making it equally hard to stay upset. Their planets are also complimentary, Pisces’ Jupiter, who is all about learning and philosophy, makes Pisces eager to know new things. Gemini’s Mercury is focused on innovation and invention, which Pisces understands on a deep level.
Typically an Air and Water sign have a hard run in the relationship gamut. However, if they are able to build on their understanding of each other, the Pisces/Gemini couple can be a fairly complete whole. Gemini brings the intellectual part of the relationship, and Pisces the emotional. Put together, these two signs are a smart and compassionate couple.
Both signs are mutable, which means that neither feels the need to be the leader of the relationship, and they can both do what they need to make it work well without stifling one another. It also means that they are both flexible, and deal well with change, something that is very good in this couple.
One of the best things about this couple is that they are so companionable. They are friends, and lovers, and that makes this a great match. They both bring flexibility to the relationship, and are able to accept their differences because of that. This can be a wonderful match, one that runs deep and is long lasting.

Pisces-Cancer Match
The Pisces and Cancer relationship can be described in one word-harmonious. You are both Water signs, and very emotional. There is a deep understand that in instinctual, and you will feel very equally matched. This relationship is many positives to it with very few negatives. If you are lucky enough to make this match, you are doing quite well.
You are both very feeling people. That is a leading title in this relationship. You understand each other intrinsically because of that, and are able to provide what the other needs, sometimes before they ever speak of it. This is truly a meeting of like spirits, and these signs typically get along without any real problems.
Because both signs rely on intuition heavily, you both are very in tune with each other. This is a great addition to an already wonderful relationship. Communication shouldn’t be an issue for you, since you both understand they others emotional needs and desires. This match can easily make decisions together, sometimes without the need to even consult their mate, due to their depth of understanding.
One of the things that can cause a misstep in this relationship is your differing needs in your lifestyle. Cancer longs for, and loves the best things in life. They need to live in a comfortable and excessive environment. Conversely, Pisces is fairly minimalist, and doesn’t care for all the excess. While you may be working towards different goals in your lifestyle, your emotional and spiritual bond will usually transcend any difficulties you may encounter in this area.
When the man in this relationship is a Pisces and the woman a Cancer, this is in a neck-and-neck tie for a soul match for you. A Pisces man is Cancer woman’s soul mate in many ways. He is passionate and affectionate in all the ways she needs him to be. He truly makes her feel special and adored, something she is searching for in a mate. He is completes her, and makes her feel emotionally safe. He is deep emotionally, the same as she, and they are great companions.
When the man in the relationship is a Cancer, and the woman is a Pisces, she melts him down as he drowns in her considerable charms. Cancer will idolize Pisces, and make her feel special, unique, and irreplaceable. And for him, it is equally perfect. This is truly a soul match that is satisfying for both parties on all levels that can possibly be reached. There will never be anything lacking in the physical side of this relationship, as you are both enormously attracted to the other. You are both also very touchy and this is a great quality to have in both partners, as the need to be touched is satisfied in each other.
Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Neptune, and Cancer is ruled by the Moon. When you get the Moon and Neptune together, they both radiate feminine warmth. Jupiter balances them out with its masculine energy, and together, they create a divine relationship. One that is focused on dreams and is almost utopian in its perfections. It is truly a celestial bond, one filled with warmth and love. Even though both signs require much emotionally from their partner, they are equally fulfilled in this match.
Since both Cancer and Pisces are Water signs, they need to be careful to not be washed away by their intense emotionalism. However, Cancer tends to be the more grounded in this relationship, and helps to keep the couple afloat and stabilized. It is not so much that Cancer just puts up with Pisces and their intense need for emotions, Cancer truly understands and empathizes this need. Cancer helps Pisces stabilize themselves emotionally, and this can be reflected in their day to day life. Cancer provides an anchor for Pisces dreams to be attached to. It is a beautiful union of both mind, spirit, and emotions.
Pisces is a Mutable sign, and Cancer is a Cardinal sign. Cancer likes to have a plan of attack for life, and is often likely to write it down, sometime in the form of lists, just to keep things straight. When given this list, Pisces is just as likely to lose it as to follow it. This can occasionally be a point of controversy for this couple. Cancer needs to give Pisces space in order follow a whim when desired. Pisces can show Cancer that the completion of a project is just as satisfying as the initiation of it, sometimes even better than it!
The greatest thing about this relationship is the true match that these signs are for each other. They understand the other in ways that most signs don’t and are able to be what the other needs. In this relationship, they are both teacher and student. Both signs value commitment, and are bound to find it in each other. The harmony of this union is celestial, a true meeting of souls.

Pisces-Leo Match
The Pisces/Leo relationship can be summed up in one pivotal word: perspective. This word has huge connotations for this relationship. The perspectives of both signs are so different, this relationship can seemed doomed before it even begins. At the same time, both signs need a new perspective in order for this relationship to work. At first glance, this match is not good at all. There a huge differences in personalities and needs from both signs.
In order for a relationship to be lasting, both parties need to have some level of shared commonality. But with Pisces and Leo, there is very little to work with. That makes for a tough match. Leo is very social and has a huge ego, while shy Pisces likes to daydream and never really do, something that Leo loves. Pisces is all about being unselfish, while Leo is demanding and egotistical. Because their basic motivation in life is so opposite, it is hard to find a point of common ground. Respect and the right perspective is the only way to get past this glaring difference.
Pisces is very sensitive to their surroundings, and the emotions around them. Leo, however, is very aggressive, and sometime uncaring of the people they might hurt as they charge ahead. This can make for a very detrimental relationship for both signs. Pisces loves the sheltered life, where everything in their environment is safe and predicable, while Leo needs public acclaim. This is yet another difference that can cause hardship for both parties in this relationship. Pisces is happy to stay home with their mate and Leo loves looking for attention outside the four walls of their house. This can lead to much arguing and disagreeing on how this couple should spend time together.
When the man in the relationship is a Leo, and the woman a Pisces, this can spell out disaster. Pisces loves to poke fun at their mate, something that is not always a bad thing, but with egotistical Leo, this is something that can doom your relationship. He needs to feel like he is invincibly male, and she just continues to laugh at him. Another problem in this relationship is that Leo can be a bully when faced with a non-aggressive partner like Pisces. Pisces, after going though several bouts of this bullying, will no doubt withdraw emotionally, something that will further infuriate Leo. He does not understand her sensitivity, and if anything, thinks less of her for it. This is not a good match.
When the man in the relationship is a Pisces, and the woman a Leo, the relationship has a little better chance of lasting that when the man is a Leo and the woman a Pisces. One of the hardest parts of this relationship, however, is that Pisces is such an introvert and Leo is outrageously extroverted. He wants you to stay home with him and forget about your social life. She, however, wants to go out dancing, or something equally social. Another problem is that when in this relationship, both signs become takers, neither givers. This spells disaster as both signs don’t feel their needs being met in their partner. They are far more likely to stray in the attempt of getting their needs met. This is also not a great match for either sign, and can be destructive for both of them.
In order for this relationship to work at all, both signs must come to understand and respect the differences in their partner. This involves sacrifice and self-control. Leo, whether the male or female in this relationship, must learn to value Pisces emotions. Pisces also needs to learn to get out there and do some things with Leo in order for this match to work. Because both signs are really polar opposites, it is sometimes easier to just resign yourself to be friends, and not try to take it further than that.
However, if you persist in this relationship, know that it can work, but at great cost to both members of it. Both must be willing to give and be unselfish in order for this pair to have a lasting relationship.
Leo is a very grounded sign, and can give Pisces an anchor in reality, or a crash landing on Earth. Leo can be very practical, something Pisces would do well to learn, and if they are gentle with Pisces and not try to bully them into submission. If both members are willing, this can be a good match that is mutually fulfilling. But it is important that both parties understand their need for cooperation in order for this relationship to last.
If the cooperation is there, this relationship can be eye-opening for both signs. While they are polar opposites, they are both dreamers at heart. When you put the Lion and the Fish in a relationship together, the Lion always comes out as the guardian. This is something that Pisces likes in a partner. When Pisces needs are being met in that way, they can become the captive audience that Leo longs for.
Pisces is a Water sign, and Leo a Fire sign. The pairing doesn’t always work so well, as water douses fire, and fire boils water to steam, but if they take careful consideration of their mate, this can be an ok match. One of the best things that can come from this relationship is the different views that both members gain from it. Perspective is so vital to this relationship, and without it, this match will never work.

Pisces-Virgo Match
The Pisces-Virgo match is not a bad one if you believe that opposites attract. In this case, you are opposite in many things, but similar in enough that this match really has a good chance of working with some fine tuning.
Pisces, as a Water sign, relies heavily on emotions to help make decisions in life. Virgo, an Earth sign, is more interested in the facts and details of everything. They like to reason things out before making a decision. Emotion is never a consideration for Virgo, as they are interesting what is the most reasonable, pragmatic thing to do. These signs often bump heads in decision making, with Pisces going on their gut feeling, while Virgo needs more facts. This can be a point of controversy among you.
Virgo loves to solve problems using rational thinking, and will want to solve all of Pisces emotional difficulties by categorizing and thinking through all of Pisces problems. This is not something Pisces really appreciates. Pisces is happy to just daydream, and let life happen around them. Virgo often mistakes this as laziness, and needs to come to understand that this is just the way Pisces mind works in order for this relationship to have a chance at lasting.
This pair can be a very well balanced match. Each sign has something new to bring to the relationship, and this can make for a healthy match. Both signs adore the other, and both work toward a harmonious relationship. This is a fairly easy-going couple. Pisces has much to learn from rational Virgo, who helps give Pisces tools to make their dreams a reality. Pisces offers emotional depth, and a gentle touch that can bring out the best in Virgo. This pair can mutually appreciate their differences.
If the man is a Pisces and the woman a Virgo, they are well matched. Although not typical ambitious, the Pisces man tends to be more so when matched with Virgo. Conversations are never dull between the two of you, but remember that Pisces can have a sharp wit that is very cutting in an argument. He needs to learn to gentle his approach, and bring more facts to the conversation in order to win Virgo over.
If Pisces is the woman and Virgo is the man in the relationship, it can be slightly less fulfilling when the opposite is true. A Virgo man is not very into the emotions that are so vital for Pisces, and when faced with a decision, he will always do what seems right, regardless of what he feels. He also does not show emotions well, as he does not put a high value on them. This can be very hard for a Pisces woman to handle, as emotions are her life-blood, and factor in to every part of her life. He might seem cold and uncaring to her, as he goes about, doing things and making decisions without ever consulting her to see how she feels about the idea.
Pisces is a Water sign, and Virgo an Earth sign. Because they are both tangible signs, they tend to mix well. This is a very natural connections for both signs. Virgo has a more stable view of life, and can ground Pisces when they need it most. However, if not controlled properly, this match of Water and Earth can easily become mud as daydreaming annoys Virgo, and Pisces thinks reason is less important than feelings.
Their ruling planets, Jupiter and Neptune (Pisces) work well with Mercury (Virgo). When Neptune and Mercury come together, they radiate with feminine energy. There is a spiritual connection between these planets. Jupiter brings the male energy to this pairing, making it a more healthy coupling. This relationship can be a very balanced one, much like yin and yang, both male and female to make things equal. This brings with it excellent communication to this match, as well as empathy and imagination.
Both Pisces and Virgo are Mutable signs, neither feeling the need to be the leader in this relationship. These signs like to go with the flow of things and are flexible in different situations that arise. This match has a recurring theme of the signs giving and taking from one another equally. They inspire excitement and help each other achieve their goals. Conflict does not often happen with this couple, however, when problems do arise, they are easily dealt with, as Virgo and Pisces don’t tend to carry grudges.
This coupling is truly a case of two opposites attracting, and instead of repelling each other, they are able to draw close to one another. The truly wonderful part of this relationship is that this couple works to bring harmony, not just for themselves, but also for everyone around them.

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things to cheer me up

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what has been happening these few days :

(a) too lazy to jot down, but very uneasy situation, here are some pretty things to look at

New Pixies from PD

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jazz concert

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Jazz concert Last FriDay

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Brothers Merisik session

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MENILIK ATAU MERISIK
Menilik atau merisik pada hakikatnya adalah adat yang memang baik dan berguna jika ia dijalankan bersesuaian dengan tujuannya, iaitu untuk memilih dan mengetahui latar belakang bakal menantu perempuan dalam sesebuah keluarga Melayu. Ini adalah untuk memastikan para ibu bapa tidak tersilap pilih dan dapat mencari yang terbaik untuk anak lelaki mereka.
Apabila ibu bapa seorang lelaki telah menetapkan fikiran mereka yang anak mereka itu sudah sampai masanya untuk berumahtangga dan patut dikahwinkan, mereka akan mencari dan memerhatikan beberapa orang daripada anak-anak dara yang mereka kenali, dan kemudian mereka memilih salah seorang di antara mereka yang dirasakan sesuai dan padan untuk dijadikan menantu. Mereka akan mula menyelidik tentang latar belakang anak dara tersebut melalui saudara-mara dan sahabat handai. Latar belakang bukan hanya bermaksud melibatkan hal keluarga anak dara tersebut, tetapi juga tingkah laku keperibadian dan kesucian anak dara itu. Ini kerana, faktor dara atau kesucian seseorang gadis amat dititikberatkan oleh masyarakat Melayu. Istilah sudah ditebuk tupai bukan sahaja akan memalukan seluruh keluarga lelaki, malah di kalangan masyarakat Melayu, pihak lelaki dianggap dayus sekiranya mereka mengahwini anak dara yang sudah tidak mempunyai dara lagi. Sekiranya pihak perempuan merahsiakan hal ini dari pengetahuan pihak lelaki, pihak lelaki berhak menceraikan isterinya jika dia menyedari yang dia telah ditipu setelah melalui malam pertama. Ini kerana, sudah menjadi adat masyarakat Melayu menetapkan nilai mas kahwin dan hantaran yang berbeza bagi seorang anak dara dan seorang janda. Nilai bagi seorang janda adalah separuh daripada nilai seorang anak dara.
Selain itu, pilihan yang tepat adalah difikirkan perlu bukan sahaja terhadap diri anak dara terbabit, tetapi juga ibu bapanya. Ini adalah kerana orang-orang Melayu dahulu berpegang kuat kepada perbidalan Melayu "Kalau hendak meminang anak, 'pinang' ibu bapanya dahulu”.Anak dara yang biasanya menjadi rebutan dan pilihan utama adalah anak dara yang sudah khatam Al-Quran, fasih dalam bacaan dan mahir membaca Al-Quran dalam lagunya serta mempunyai sedikit sebanyak tentang pengetahuan dan hukum-hukum dalam agama Islam. Begitu juga mereka akan dinilai dari segi rupa paras yang elok dan beberapa kemahiran asas yang lain seperti menjahit, menekat dan memasak.
Dalam adat menilik atau merisik, selepas anak dara yang sesuai dipilih, biasanya wakil dari pihak lelaki akan datang ke rumah anak dara tersebut. Biasanya rombongan ini akan hanya disertai oleh ahli keluarga perempuan bagi pihak lelaki. Kedatangan ini bertujuan untuk berkenal-kenalan dengan keluarga pihak perempuan di samping melihat sendiri wajah dan tubuh badan anak dara tersebut. Kedatangan ini juga bertujuan untuk memastikan sama ada anak dara tersebut sudah dimiliki orang ataupun belum. Ada sesetengah rombongan yang hanya datang untuk melihat anak dara tersebut dan bersuai kenal dengan ahli keluarganya tanpa mengikat sebarang perjanjian atau memberi kata putus, namun ada juga yang terus mengikat janji persetujuan untuk menetapkan tarikh peminangan. Ini semua bergantung kepada pihak keluarga lelaki terbabit.
Ada rombongan yang datang tanpa diberitahu dan ada juga yang datang setelah dimaklumkan terlebih dahulu kepada pihak perempuan. Pada fahaman dan kepercayaan orang tua-tua, apabila kedatangan menilik atau merisik itu dilakukan dengan tiba-tiba sahaja dan secara kebetulan pada waktu itu didapati anak dara tersebut sedang mandi atau mencuci pakaian, maka ia membawa suatu petanda yang baik, iaitu menunjukkan jodoh pertemuan yang sejuk. Ini kononnya membawa maksud bahawa jika kedua-duanya jadi diikat sebagai suami isteri, kehidupan mereka akan menjadi senang-lenang dan keadaan rumahtangga mereka akan sentiasa aman muafakat. Akan tetapi, sekiranya sewaktu rombongan datang, anak dara tersebut sedang memasak, maka ia membawa alamat kurang baik kerana dengan yang demikian, kononnya, membawa petanda panas, iaitu tidak begitu baik. Begitu juga dipercayai oleh orang tua-tua Melayu dahulu bahawa jika sewaktu di dalam perjalanan rombongan hendak pergi merisik anak dara berlaku sesuatu bencana seperti terdapat kayu di tengah-tengah jalan, iaitu sesuatu yang dianggap menggendalakan, maka ia juga dikatakan membawa petanda yang kurang baik terhadap jodoh tersebut. Namun begitu, bagi masyarakat Melayu moden kini, kepercayaan-kepercayaan sedemikian tidak lagi diamalkan dan dititikberatkan. Malah, tidak mustahil dikatakan sebilangan besar masyarakat Melayu kini kurang memahami alamat-alamat dan petanda yang datang kepada mereka.
Setelah selesai adat menilik, rombongan tersebut akan pulang. Satu rundingan akan diadakan di antara ahli keluarga pihak lelaki yang melibatkan adik-beradik dan waris terdekat untuk mencari kata putus tentang hal tersebut. Mereka kemudiannya akan berbincang untuk menetapkan tarikh yang sesuai untuk menjalankan adat meminang dan pertunangan.

Yes , Anuar's session of merisik, waaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh so many adat u know, pening ,

session perkenalan antara iBu n IbU

LAKI'S SIDE

me n me mom

The Married man to be ...kikikikikik.....

I know that much pix, I x knw how to use da cam yet , I know now, will upload more pix durg engagement ....yipeeeeeeeeeeee...........

2008-07-22T22:38:00.000-07:00

shopping OL Part Two

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Point Of Contact

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My bad =( , for those who are interested in making a purchase, do email me at
sorapinkg@yahoo.com
or

sr.mansor@gmail.com

Cheers !!!!!

I have some baby & kiddy clothes that I am going to upload later, enjoy !

buy buy part two

2008-06-30T22:21:00.000-07:00

Holidays

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These are part of the pix that r retrieved from my Penang( 2 days 2 nights ) + Langkawi( 6 days 5 nights ) oliday , Not that much pix taken in Langkawi ... 2 busy chilling =) !!!

I love holidays, the beach , pretty much just getting away from anything /......, the best part is no cramped train and no rushing to work. It's just pure getting away ...from KL, my next stop is Perhentian, Vietnam , .... for now

happenings

2008-06-28T07:20:00.000-07:00

This is what has been happening lately. Instead of actually decorating, I developed a new habit of virtual decorating. I know its sounds silly and all, but its way more fun because

I don't have to move

No investment involved

Really nice things to choose from the internet

Bedroom Type 1 :

As you can see, the bed type is actually very nice, bed with no legs, color type is all BLUE

Bedroom Type 2 :

Which is so normal , but I like how the floor has a very clear like reflection , looks very sleek and nice

Reading Chair: For magazine lovers or book lovers, what would a house be without something like this that we all can use , swinging and reading , walla =) !!!!!

Playing chair? I don't know what chair this is , but its made for couples, I just know , I love black and red !!!

Just a nice view and mixture of red and white, my two fav colors

Another nice touch, with the back mirrors and red glass table

Just so beautiful, I definately would love to have this one, black, white and red three prime colors that I want to have at my virtual house for now.... =P

This is another beautiful piece.... with the simple flowers, it would very nice placed at one corner of the living room

Toilet : Again : red + black + white = happy Soraya